The existence of transgender women is always considered as an appealing myth. So many people are interested in them. Some people have always wanted to trans date them, which is deemed as fetishism, while some simply are curious. Even for transphobia, if they meet one transgender woman, they would want to take off her clothes and have a peek of their body just to satisfy their villainous curiosity. Therefore, the situation is severe for transgender people. They cannot tell the good from the bad, which totally count for the majority. Therefore, most transgender people refuse to reveal their true self. They stay hidden from the world with blue fear. Even when they meet someone who really care for them, they are reluctant to come out.
Because of the poor education of the public about transgender people, they are mistreated and not-very-well handled. As women and as plain human-being, they long for love and caress. They want to live a normal life just as every other cisgender woman. They want to be recognized as women as who they are. They want to be treated as a lady. They also look for true love and also a happy family. If you are one of the people who genuinely care about transgender people, here are several things you need to know about them. The next time you encounter a transgender woman, I hope you treat them in the right and proper way, which makes them comfortable.
There are some compliments which are not so pleasant to hear for transgender women. We all like compliments and love to give compliments. However, for transgender people, you must be just as sensitive as them so as to pay the right compliments and to deliver your kind heart in the right way without being misunderstood. “Wow, I never knew you are born as a man”. “You look just like a woman”. You may think such kind of compliments are the ones they want to hear. In fact, they are not. Actually, saying these words only proves that you don’t know anything about transgender people and that you don’t approve their sexual identity. They are not compliment but being rude and disrespectful. You are saying that they are not woman. They are just pretending to be.
Be yourself and give your ts date the right to do the same. Everyone is asked to be themselves from the day we were born, but for transgender women, what is self? There are two answers: body or mind. Many people think they should live in compliance with their body, while that would make them suffer mentally, which is also why transgender people choose to live in compliance with their mind. We should respect that. Beyond respect, we should also understand and support them if you are to date one of them. If you have both respect and support for them, then you have walked into their heart, because those two things are what they need the most.